Not my chair. Not my chair, not my problems, that's what I say. (For those of you who don't recognize this quote, watch 'drinking out of cups' on youtube..stupid, yet hilarious. Definitely the quote of the week).
So the past week has been very...interesting to say the least. I don't know if it's part culture shock or hormones or what have you, but I've gone from loving this place one minute to missing the States the next. I feel like I adjusted to Nevis better last summer than I am right now, and I'm surprisingly more homesick than I thought I would be.
I've come to the conclusion that I've been feeling this way for a variety of reasons. First of all, you all know you mean the world to me, and I do miss each and every one of you very much. Secondly, in Raleigh I have everything at my fingertips, and if I don't know where or what something is, I can ask and usually start up an interesting conversation with someone. It's harder here because I have no car, and although I have a weird love for the subte (subway system), it's still alot of walking (I need some boots made for walking...har har) and alot of not knowing where everything is. Granted, this will all change as I get to know the city better but in the meantime it's frustrating not having the capability to hop in my car and head to Target. Also, the Spanish here is incredibly difficult to understand. They talk a million miles a minute, use the "vos" form (of which you know we never learned in school...they'll say "como estas vos?" or when you ask "como estas?", they answer with "bien, y vos?"...it took me a couple days to catch on to this), pronounce "y" and "ll" as a smooth Spanish "j" sound, never use the ud./uds. forms, and have a certain type or porteno slang called "lunfardo" of which I don't understand a lick of. So now, when I get lost or I can't find something I need, I have to pray that they A) understand my slowly improving Spanish and B) answer in a way I can understand. Dios mio.
Adjusting to city life is also harder than I thought it would be. Buenos Aires is enormous, composed of seven different districts and 3 million people in the city alone. Even after two weeks, I still feel as though I've barely gotten to know the city. I know parts of Palermo (where we live), the Belgrano region where our university is, and I've been to a movie theater in Recoleta. Just outside of the city, there lies a town/river area named El Tigre. Part of our group went on an adorable boat ride through the river and learned about the lifestyle over there this past weekend. It was nice to get out of the hustle and bustle of the city and see water again! The lifestyle there is very unique; they basically use the river as a road system, using boats to get everywhere and even leaving out notes so that the mini-grocery-boats can come by and drop some supplies off (or at least that's what I heard from someone?). Other than that, I've got quite a bit of exploring to do over the next couple months! We have a full-blown nature trip in Cordoba coming up soon, a visit to the museum planned out for Friday, a weekend trip to Iguazu falls, and some other minor day things to do during the upcoming weekends like visiting the markets in San Telmo, Japanese gardens, the park at Plaza Italia, etc.
Also, safety has become a concern of mine. Our program, ISA, pretty much gave us a series of orientations filled with terrifying stories of people getting robbed, drugged up, put into dangerous situations, etc. I didn't worry too much at first because I figured they were just trying to keep us on our toes so that we wouldn't get too comfortable and therefore more vulnerable, but ironically as time's gone on I've become more afraid of the people in this city. The other night I was at the club and some jerk discreetly opened my purse and tried to pickpocket me but I caught it before he could take anything. After hearing about two ISA students being held up at gunpoint, my neighbor being mugged, and this, it was kind of a wake up call that my only option is to become a ninja and kick some bad-guy booty. Or just make sure I'm never walking alone at night!
The residencia has also become a bit of a bother, but I think that's because I've been comparing it to the dorms we have in the States as one of my friends pointed out to me. While usually you get the freedom of going to a basement area or someone's room to hang out after certain hours, we're on lockdown like a prison after 11pm. After 11pm, we have to either be in our rooms or sitting in the common areas in complete silence, we can't have visitors even step inside the building, and we can't be in a member of the opposite sex's room past the bewitching hour. My internet connection has been really screwy and when it works in one building, it won't in the other and vice versa, so sometimes I'll run across the street to the other building to get a little internet access. One time I was told that because I didn't sleep in the other building, I had to return to my own building and I was only allowed to stay there after I promised to be completely silent. It's definitely not the social place I thought it would be but in the past couple days it's appeared to be a little more lenient. I've found that I can go to the comedor and talk on Skype so I'm thinking that should be our new hang out place from now on. We'll figure it out! I think there's also a level of politics and money issues at play. I've noticed the American students who are here with specific programs getting in trouble a lot more than those who pay monthly and I've been told it's probably all politics. We've already pre-paid for our whole stay here, so now they can bother us and threaten to kick us out without us threatening them back that we'll take our money somewhere else. Now all we have to do is figure out how to play the game back...and win.
On the bright side, there are certain cultural flares that I'm falling in love with. Everyone here does a single kiss on the right cheek when saying hello and goodbye, and I find it much more personal than a cold handshake or an awkward game of "saying-hello-to-someone-then-awkwardly-glancing-away". The people in the city are just like those in New York city...for the most part they're hurried and never show gratitude, but I'm learning to find the diamonds in the rough. The older generations are definitely more willing to say hello and answer questions but the younger generations are rather indifferent and appear almost annoyed with us. Luckily, my immediate surroundings include a couple of kioskos and a bakery owned by incredibly nice adults, it's good to find a southern hospitality in such a busy place! (Who would have guessed that I, of all people, miss the South!? Was it just me or did you just feel the earth shake too?).
Perhaps the cultural aspect I'm looking forward to the most is the mate! It's a really unique thing and I haven't met an Argentine in the residencia who doesn't have their own mate...and it's slowly catching onto the foreigners as well! So there is this gourd container called a mate, and basically all you do is put loose-leaf tea (yerba mate) into it, pour hot water on top, and drink from this metal straw called a bombilla. The straw is made so that it only lets the liquid pass, allowing you to keep refilling the gourd until the taste runs out. I bought my own little mate at the markets in El Tigre this weekend but since it's made out of a gourd/wood like material, it needs to be "cured" so that the tea doesn't taste like wood. Right now it's in the process of curing but tonight I'll hopefully be able to have my own cup of mate! It's packed with caffeine and much cheaper than buying a coffee every day. I haven't experienced this yet but apparently there are certain rules of ettiquette that go along with drinking mate in groups. Often times one cup is shared among a social group, where the server makes a round, gives it to a person, they finish the serving, and then hand it back to the server to be passed around again.
Oh wait...I'm here for school aren't I? Ah that's right. Well, my classes are pretty awesome so far. I guess I don't have too much to add to that because I'm only taking four classes and each class is an hour and a half two times a week so Monday through Thursday I have three hours of classes. Yeah, yeah I know, "oh! you have such a hard life!"...but it's actually harder for me to do less than more! I'm so use to being bogged down with homework, work, life, and attempts at a social life that now I don't know what to do with so much free time. Unfortunately it has a reverse affect on me and makes me more tiered and useless than it does productive. I'm taking advanced grammar (which I'm super excited about ironically, it's going to help me greatly with my Spanish), contemporary Argentine art, Latinamerican literature, and Argentine culture...all in Spanish. I can understand most everything that's going on in the class but I better learn how to speak it fast if I want my participation points! The classes so far seem interesting and the teachers are nice, but I will definitely need to start drinking some mate before going...three hours is a long time for me to sit still and pay attention.
Okay I'll try to write more often so these entries aren't novel-status.
Hasta luego, besos a todos!